Vladimir, 32 years (Wealthy STATE EMPLOYEE)
- Homosexuals go on about love, but something I do not see a stable gay couples. I have a wife, of course, she did not know about me, I have a daughter. I earn enough to support a family and have comfortably when I want, Man. I have a couple of guys with whom you can spend the evening in bed.
- Have you ever thought about how to live permanently with the guy? Create a gay family?
- That will never happen, I do not see how the two men get along.
Yuri, 52 years old (the doctor)
- I laughed when I was told about a serious relationship between men, and only about living together with a guy, I do not think I could. I had a wife, two children, a prestigious job. So I've been in thirty years.I have not had any problems with men or with women. I tried everything. I was all like. And suddenly, in forty years, I met Andrew:
Now we have our own one-bedroom apartment. I have been divorced, and Andrew - too. My daughter got married. Son graduate college. The wife is a lovely apartment, and I - Andrew. Anything else I should not.
I try to earn more. I know that I need to help his wife, daughter, son. But when I work, I think, first of all, about Andrew.
- How do you explain his departure to his wife? Did you tell her about his true love?
- No, I did not explain to his wife the true causes of divorce. Many of my friends are heterosexuals still can not understand what actually happened. After all, on the part of we had just a perfect marriage.
VICTOR, 37 YEARS (Russian officer)
- The first time I slept with a guy in a storeroom in the first year of military service. Self-indulgence, I thought. The guy called me yet, but I do not want to. What am I - fag or something, I thought.Well, then, drunk again, then again, And say to myself that it is so simple. Then he got married already when I finished school. His wife needed the officer. Basically my wife - a good woman, Kriklivaya true, but what can you do. The kids went, the garrisons were wound:
I have major then was, came to us in part one captain. This happened as a matter of, and even on the first night. An officer comes in part, means should be put. Well, this evening and put the captain, had a drink, then another. You know, not enough running down.Songs singed, well, it's time to leave. He had no wife. Like all of us in a new place, you first need to get, and then - family transport.Oh, and he, too, so. He was given a room in a hostel. We went out of the part, and he said: "Let's go to me. Let's drink to the last." I think no, enough is enough, have to go home, and he said, "Come on".
I walked away from him in the morning, at five o'clock. I was on the x .., as it's called, I fag or not. After that night I was all the time like a drunken man. I think in the garrison all about us, we were like rabid, we would like each other every second, as if something had broken through. And he and I have.
- Well, then?
- Then, then soup with a cat. He returned home one day about two o'clock the night, his wife did not sleep. Asked right in the forehead. So I said, yes, I sleep with Zhenya was the name of the captain. Since then, five years have passed, I do not sleep with his wife. I do not want to, it is something he wants. At first, all scared, "I'll go to the boss, I'll go to the boss," and now behind.
- What about the captain?
- Nothing after that night his wife went to the regimental commander and said that she does not fit the climate. I do not know, maybe "given" to him? But a week later I was transferred out of the section and I do not know anything about it.
Vladimir, 25 YEARS (merchants)
- I'm his future wife all said before the wedding. We went together to the party. At first she was stunned when she saw that I was kissing a guy. And then as if used to.- And why did you marry? You do not love her.
- Parents. They got me. When you get married? When you get married? When? Yes, even now. I asked her, let's get married.
- How she behaved?
- I am now beginning to wonder why she agreed. She apparently thought that I'll get used to it, forget everything. Maybe she thought I could redo it. Her attitude toward homosexuality was a kind. She believed that homosexuality is a kind of sport. For the most refined natures. Something like the insignia for intellectuals.
- So you decided to ruin the life of a girl who loves you?
- You're probably right. I - selfish. I went down that road, which is easier.